Gold Star Father Shares Profound Meaning Freedom Holds After Son's Sacrifice

Jim McCollum, Gold Star father of fallen Marine Lance Cpl. Rylee McCollum, reveals how his son's death in Afghanistan has transformed his perception of freedom, emphasizing the sacrifices made to preserve it throughout history.

Jim McCollum, a Gold Star father whose son, Lance Cpl. Rylee McCollum, was killed in action in Afghanistan in 2021, has shared his poignant insights on the true meaning of freedom.

Gold Star Father Shares Profound Meaning Freedom Holds After Son's Sacrifice

After losing his son to war, McCollum says the phrase "freedom isn't free" has taken on a profound significance. "It all comes down to sacrifice," he says. "It's 20 years of this war. It's 248 years of our country. All the sacrifices made to give us the freedoms and allow us to have and do the things that we do. We owe so much to so many people."

McCollum reflects on how the Star-Spangled Banner and Taps now evoke deep emotions in him. "You can't look at that flag or hear either one--I can't anymore--without tearing up," he says. "I've always had respect for the flag and loved what it represents, but it has definitely taken on a whole new meaning."

Gold Star Father Shares Profound Meaning Freedom Holds After Son's Sacrifice

Rylee McCollum, a native of Wyoming, was a lifelong wrestler and history enthusiast. His father recalls Rylee's unwavering determination to become a Marine, saying, "He was steadfast, 'I'm going to be a Marine.' And like several of the kids on his 18th birthday, he signed that dotted line."

After graduating high school, Rylee left for Camp Pendleton in 2019, where he met and married his wife, Gigi Crayton. The couple welcomed a daughter, Levi Rylee Rose McCollum, in September 2021, just weeks after Rylee's passing.

Gold Star Father Shares Profound Meaning Freedom Holds After Son's Sacrifice

Amidst the heartbreak, McCollum has found solace in the community of other Gold Star families. "I may have lost a son, but I've gained a family," he says.

Rylee's memory is honored through the Rylee McCollum Memorial Scholarship, which supports Wyoming high school graduates pursuing higher education. The scholarship ensures that Rylee's legacy of service and sacrifice continues to inspire future generations.

Gold Star Father Shares Profound Meaning Freedom Holds After Son's Sacrifice

As a Gold Star father, McCollum implores Americans to remember the sacrifices made by our fallen heroes and the importance of cherishing and preserving our freedoms. "I hope people understand that there are bigger things, and we need to be part of something. And the best way to do that is serving your country and protecting these freedoms."

McCollum's story is a powerful testament to the profound impact of military sacrifice on families and communities. It is a reminder of the immeasurable debt we owe to those who have given their lives in defense of our nation and the enduring spirit that carries us forward.